Asking An NFL Prospect If His Mother Is A Prostitute: Fair or Foul?
Remember last week when I wrote that the National Football League was the greatest show on Earth right now because it’s basically become one long year-round soap opera? Yeah, forget that. Because the latest story to emerge from the NFL is just a little too crazy to believe—even by soap opera standards.
According to a piece written by Yahoo! Sports columnist Michael Silver, it goes a little something like this: Prior to the NFL Draft last week, former college standout Dez Bryant was interviewed by a variety of different NFL teams. And because he was suspended for the second-half of the college season last fall due to a violation of NCAA policies, they asked him plenty of questions to gauge what type of person he is. He answered all of them, even when he probably didn’t want to. In particular, Miami Dolphins General Manager Jeff Ireland asked him one that ruffled his feathers. At least, momentarily.
Because Bryant is the product of a mother who had him when she was just 15 and because his mother’s served time in prison in the past on drug charges, Ireland felt the need to ask Bryant a question that could have sparked any number of reactions from the young football phenom: “Is your mother a prostitute?” To his credit, Bryant responded gracefully by telling Ireland that his mother isn’t a prostitute. And now? Well, Ireland is the one facing one very important question: “How could you?”
The NFL Draft is tricky business—and Jeff Ireland isn’t the only NFL GM asking idiotic questions. Silver says as much in his column by detailing a whole bunch of other ridiculous questions that were asked to NFL prospects prior to the Draft, including one particularly memorable one involving a 300-pound defensive lineman and a G-string (yikes!). But Ireland has come under attack since the column hit the ’net, and rightfully so.
For starters, even if Bryant’s mother is a prostitute, who cares? It doesn’t affect his ability to play football. Secondly, the loaded question could have triggered a much different reaction from Dez Bryant, namely one involving his fists and Ireland’s face. As a result, we’d be having a whole different argument today about Bryant and his ability to control himself, despite the fact that he was asked a question that, quite frankly, deserved a knuckle sandwich in return. And, third, if Ireland’s question is an indication of what NFL teams are allowed to ask NFL prospects, exactly what is considered out-of-bounds?
Listen, I don’t need an NFL expert to tell me that the NFL Draft isn’t an exact science to get the point here. I understand NFL teams invest millions of dollars into researching a bunch of 20-something-year-old prospects to decide who they will select, and that they need to do everything they can to make sure they’re selecting the player that’s right for them, hence the endless questions. Sometimes, there will be hard-to-ask questions, as well. That’s all good.
But the Dez Bryant/Jeff Ireland situation sets a terrible precedent. If you’re allowed to ask someone if their mother is a prostitute, what’s next? And what exactly does the answer prove anyway? That Dez Bryant is man enough to suppress every nerve in his body and not knock out the guy sitting across the table from him?
There are plenty of things that NFL teams need to know before they make a draft pick. Height? Weight? 40-meter time? Bench press? Even a few personal details and maybe a couple of hypothetical situations thrown in for good measure. After all, it’s basically a job interview—and a potential employer deserves to know a little bit about the person they’re thinking of hiring. But when it comes to asking a 21-year-old kid about his mother, it’s gone too far.
It’s disgusting, it’s insulting and, above all, it makes the NFL look bad. No question about it.
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That has nothing to do with performance. Sounds like something a blogger would ask.
WHAT THE HELL EVEN IF HIS MOTHER WAS A LADY OF THE NIGHT. WHAT GIVES HIM THE RIGHT TO EVEN ASK THAT QUESTION? WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? IF I WERE HIM I WOULD HAVE KNOCKED HIM THE HELL OUT, AND WHAT EVER CAME AFTER CAME AFTER, BUT I COMMEND HIM FOR KEEPING HIS COOL AND HE WIOLD BE A COUCH I WOULD LOVE TO PLAY AGAINST (ASSHOLE) KEEP YOU HEAD UP MY BROTHER
Someone commented on another board that it might have been a “trick” question, to see how he handled someone pushing his buttons. If that’s the case, I’d say he passed! Also, yes it was inappropriate even if that was the case.
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Man fuck it he just needs to focus and get as much paper he can before his career is over , becasue guess what that motherfucker asking them questions is gonna be asking another person that next year and the year after that and the year after that…and when Dez is in a wheelchair nursing them injuries dude still gonna be asking people that question…stop worrying about what people say..prove them wrong with yoru actions on and off the field.
I agree with kwaping. It’s a good way to see what the person is made of and how he handles himself.
Had something like that done to me in bootcamp. RDC said something crazy about my mother infront of the division(she’d recently passed away and this was in my record so they knew). I just looked straight ahead. He said wow good job on discipline & apologized. After that bootcamp was cake.
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