I Like Women Who Like Women—Do You?
Ladies, I know you’ve heard it in songs from T.I. saying “I like women who like women” to Usher‘s song “Lil Freak” where the underlying theme is a threesome, but the question is—do men really want this? Simply put, f*ck yes! I personally am not sure if I could have a relationship with a woman that’s not genuinely bisexual. Why? Several reasons come to mind but the primary reason is because these days, normal relationships don’t work, don’t last, and the vast majority of men cheat on their long-term girlfriends and wives.
The first question women tend to ask is, “What’s so wrong with me that he feels the need to cheat or needs me to bring another chick into the situation?” Or they say things like, “He doesn’t love me because if he did he wouldn’t want that and he would be satisfied with me and only me forever and ever and never cheat.” First of all sweetheart, there’s nothing wrong with you at all. Second of all, get f*ckin’ real!
If we’re going to be honest, let’s be honest. Love don’t change ’cause he decided to get a piece of p*ssy outside of you. It just doesn’t work like that. Men work more on animal instinct than emotion when it comes to sex, which is the polar opposite of women. That’s why they cannot fathom how sex and emotion are not intertwined. I hate to pull the genetic card but s*it, men are programmed to inseminate—but we still know love and loyalty. Along the way we’ve been given tools such as morality, judgment and compassion but at the end of the day, we really would like to f*ck everything we find attractive and we should be given credit for every bad chick we don’t smash. Sounds harsh but the only reason we don’t do every open crevice that offers it when we’re in a relationship is because society and “thinking” women programmed us to believe that anything outside of monogamy is sinful and immoral. But let’s get back to why men would rather be with a woman that likes p*ssy.
The truth is, we would rather not cheat on you. Men love a woman they have things in common with. Honestly, a man would rather have a girlfriend that they can relate to like they can relate with their homie. The ability to go out in public, look over to your girlfriend and say, “Damn, shawty has a fat ass” and her replying “Hell yeah” is one of the most liberating feelings in the world. When a man cannot be himself in all situations, the relationship WILL fail or one or both of you will live in misery. The thing is, you know your man is cheating and lying to you about it (and if you didn’t, come to grips with it). Get over your denial and accept that man’s need to partake in the satisfaction of outside vaginas as part of the natural order (I hear women screaming). Wouldn’t you rather participate with your man than deal with finding the Magnum wrapper in his jeans? You can either get with the program or smell his drawers every night and cry for two days.
The main reason why men step outside of their relationship at the end of the day is f*cking boredom. You are now part of a monotonous routine, which most people hate. Just because you’re satisfied with the predictable life doesn’t mean he is. Spice it up or break up. Most men have never even had a threesome but they’ve all had p*ssy. Show him something new and you might be pleasantly surprised at how your relationship and sex life changes for the better.